Fifty Shades vs Five Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades vs Five Shades of Grey

Tweet Fifty Shades of Grey Movie As the hype about the movie Fifty Shades is concluding, I searched the internet and chatted with friends to compare my opinion of the book and the movie with others. I enjoyed the books but thought the movie lacked the distinct characteristics that I had anticipated. Many of my friends thought the movie was cute. Online reviews were mixed between worst ever and best ever. My opinion is that the movie was ambiguous in its theme. My sometimes over analytical mind thought the movie…

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Candice Bergen is Fat?

Candice Bergen is Fat?

Tweet Women and Body Image. Recently I read an article about Candice Bergen and her love for carbs and fatty foods. I was taken aback by her comment, “I am fat”. I googled her image and checked her out at various angles and poses. Fat? No way. She looks beautiful and happy. It is no secret that how we see ourselves in the mirror is how we treat our mind and body. Unfortunately, too often we set unrealistic and unattainable ideal body expectations. The impractical expectations are acquired from various…

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Having An Affair & Feeling Good

Having An Affair & Feeling Good

Tweet Reconnecting With Your Partner Sit back, close your eyes and try to remember when you first started dating your partner. Hopefully it brings a thoughtful smile to your face and arouses earnest memories. Can you remember when you couldn’t wait to see him? The mere thought of him caused nervous and excited butterflies. It didn’t matter where you went because you were simply eager to be with him. It didn’t matter what he talked about because you were delighted at the very sound of his voice. Do you recall…

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Can Men and Women be Just Friends?

Can Men and Women be Just Friends?

Tweet Friendships vs Relationships. Can men and women really be just friends? Or will one always want more? Can men and women bond like same sex friendships? The male- female friendship boundaries and desires must be communicated at the start of a friendship. It must not be left to chance or assumptions. Men and women can casually be friends. Opposite sex friendships should be intermittent in order to avoid confusion or embarrassment regarding the status of the relationship. Confusion can and often does result when one of the friends develop…

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Respect for Time

Respect for Time

Tweet Respect For Time Let me begin by saying that if I, if we agree to meet up, hang out, in short, spend time together then I ask of one thing: be in the moment and respect the time we have together. Perhaps I have reached a selfish and, to some people, slightly unreasonable point in my life wherein I request the same respect that I give in regard to appreciating time spent with others. For that friend, lover, co-worker there was some mutual attraction or common interest that caused…

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“Phenomenal Woman” by Maya Angelou

“Phenomenal Woman” by Maya Angelou

Tweet Phenomenal Woman Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size But when I start to tell them, They think I’m telling lies. I say, It’s in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I’m a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That’s me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then…

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My Love

My Love

Tweet My Love I am in love. My love is soft and gentle…at times accordingly direct and demanding…Love and life has resolved my love to being self reliant yet dedicated to cultivating a nurturing aura. In my mind’s eye I have seen my love walk across a room gracefully and confidently. A sexy sway that declares, “I am love”. My love’s substantiated brilliance requires no fabricated audience. Witty? Don’t blink, pay attention, otherwise you just may miss it! I look into the eyes of my love and KNOW there’s been…

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Fathers & Daughters

Fathers & Daughters

Tweet More men should raise their daughters! Plainly, some men can do a more than adequate job at raising docile whores. The thought occurred to me as I listened in on a group of male friends. The men, boasted and I am sure exaggerated about their sexual encounters. The common theme of the dialogue was justification with no penitence or conscious of the many women outside of their relationships that they had sexual encounters with. I could detail the conversation, but I am fairly certain it is one that has…

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